If you’ve looked at personal ads at Tinder or any adult dating websites, you’ve probably seen ads from couples. Among them, some are clearly swinger couples just out for adult swing. But many couples are looking for something more. Couple looking for third partner, in the poly world, we call them “unicorn hunters.”
There are a shockingly large number of couple looking for unicorn. A “unicorn” mainly refers to a young, single bisexual female who is willing to join an existing couple, usually a male/female couple. We call these women “unicorns”
In an ideal unicorn relationship, unicorn girl is supposed to be sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple. The couple is usually considered a primary relationship, while the unicorn will be a secondary partner to both. She isn’t allowed to do anything with one member of the triad, always with both.
For the unicorn girl, there are two people to impress, two people to please, and three sets of needs, wants, and desires that you have to contend with if want to have an enjoyable, comfortable adult swing experience. But finding a unicorn woman is hard. And every couple has their own rules to find a unicorn. Everything is open to negotiation. The main rule is set by that poly couple, but you can have your opinion as well.